Serenity Foreword THIS little volume the result of meditation and experience is not intended as an exhaustive treatise on the much-written-upon subject of the power of thought. A man is literally what he thinks, his character being the complete sum of all his thoughts.
We Have it Backwards If you ask most people what they find beautiful about a person, many of them will probably begin to describe someone's physical characteristics. It usually goes something like this: And that doesn't just mean how men and women communicate differently - or even just tips for how to get along with the opposite sex.
Yes, it does include that. But what I also teach is how our society especially messages from the media help create and perpetuate gender ideals. In other words, we all get messages about what it's like to be the "perfect woman" or the "perfect man.
Some other top non-physical qualities mentioned are: As for the male gender ideals, I usually get: It's not very common for the physical characteristics other than strong to be mentioned for the males, but it's always one of the first for females.
That's not to say that males don't have physical ideals to live up to, but society seems to be kinder to men if they don't exactly live up to these ideals. The male leads are average-looking, middle-aged men.
In contrast, their wives appear younger and more attractive than they are.
In an era of TV shows such as these, along with the kinds about plastic surgery, it's no wonder that so many people are seeking out ways to "fix" their outer selves. For example, since Keeping Up with the Kardashians debuted, some people are even getting Brazilian butt lifts so they can look like Kim Kardshian.
Sure, it might seem like it's a good thing to do if you have the money well, maybe.
But what people don't take into consideration is the risks they are taking just to live up to society's standards of beauty. It's also important to point out that beauty ideals have changed throughout time.
As illustrated in this videoyou can see how wildly different every era's gender ideals have been for women. For example, during the Italian Renaissance and Victorian England, the perfect woman was slightly overweight and had very pale skin kind of makes me wish I lived during those times - ha.
So, there are no objective or consistent measures of beauty - even though there is scientific research that has actually tried to objectively define beauty.
But in reality, it's all what a culture socially agrees upon as perfect definition of "beauty. So that leads me to ask the question: Why do we value it above inner beauty? Or, in my opinion, why do we have it all backwards? I am sure the answer goes back to how our DNA is programmed.
Humans instinctively look for the best mate in order to pass down their genes to the next generation. But isn't it sad that we are still letting biological programming dictate our conceptualization of beauty?Inner Beauty vs.
Outer Beauty, which one is more important? is an ongoing debate. To me, both are important in life. However, if you want to choose only one between these two, I . Inner beauty is also defined by a person’s own mind, meaning that a person may believe that a man or a woman possesses inner beauty whereas another person may not agree.
When in relationships, it is important that one’s lover possesses inner beauty; however, when looking for a lover, the need for physical beauty overpowers the need for.
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Inner and Outer Beauty The Picture of Dorian Gray, a notorious novel by Oscar Wilde, takes place in London, England. In this novel, Dorian Gray, an extremely arrogant Englishmen, becomes crazed with the idea that his youth and appearance are all that he has/5(1).
If a character is beautiful, then that character is a bad person, either publicly or secretly. Traditionally, heroes are attractive, clean, and well-mannered, and villains are ugly, unhygienic, and boorish.
While Outer Beauty is but a temporary and fleeting illusion, Outer Beauty can be used to gain instant and temporary gratification in the physical realm, Inner Beauty is Spiritual Magic which enables the person who possesses it to enjoy permanent contentment in all realms: physical, mental, and spiritual.